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Carole Amend

Dear Michael,

Thanks for reading the post on the AIM Academy Forum. And thanks for clarifying that you did not read Alycea's post on the Wii. I wondered about that.

If you read all the way through, I think you will find that I was asking for clarification on a few points:

From whom did you get the suggestion of a two-way street?

Why single out the PT model when pilates has clearly moved in so many directions?

Are you not aware that so many teachers on the PCDB take your view on whole body and progressing to the mat?

It's been stated several times in the post you cite and elsewhere on the PCDB(did you overlook those statements?)that classical teachers take this view. I was always taught that the apparatus helps a body to progress to the mat. I dare say that, at this time, the classical viewpoint is heading towards a critical mass understanding. At least, I hope so. We're about at that 50 year mark, aren't we?

What I believe is that there are many knowledgable teachers out there that could benefit from validation; I have gotten a lot from reading the PCDB and have made connections with stellar individuals. As you are someone who professes to have a deep understanding of pilates and who may, in fact, share some of my pilatical concerns (I don't mean to presume, it's just my take from reading your political statements), I'd just like to get some clarifications on the above points from you.

So, I'm wondering if it's too much to ask if you could please resist seeing yourself as under scrutiny enough to clarify for the benefit of all, specifically, with respect to the quote on my post.

I also know what it's like to be misinterpreted, being someone who decided to speak up about my view of the PMA. Even though I took some hard hits for it on Pilates Pro, I know I needed to do it; it was the right thing for me to do. My viewpoint is still misunderstood in that arena; I keep explaining as best I can as opportunities arise.

As you can see from the posts, your viewpoint is sometimes confusing to me and to others. Please do not assume that it is because we do not understand pilates. I think you have come to explain your view better and better over the years. I know that there are others that already share your view in some capacity, they just might not say it exactly the same way. The way I see it, it comes down to how we define the terms we use to describe pilates. For example, what you call "fluorescence," I might simply call "presence." Does that necessitate a divide between us? If anyone ever suggested that I brand Amend Pilates, I can tell you, that would never happen.

I have read your book, and quite a bit of your writings. Definitely some gems here. Are you interested in hearing other people's viewpoints? I am, and I've stated why on my blog: http://aasicontributions.blogspot.com. I believe it's really important right now to come to a common ground.

There is paradox in everything, Michael, including many of your statements, so, I'll ask you also to not kill the messenger.

In spirit,
Carole

Carole Amend

Mr. Miller,

I am posting again in response to your statement:

Michael Miller quotes me:
“I think a discussion of the patriarchal view will lead us to knowing that we all owe a lot to Clara.”

Then Michael Miller responds:
“I think you’re wrong, plain and simple wrong. (And we have a right to disagree.) Your kind of argument would want to talk about what we owe to Einstein’s girlfriend or Madame Curie’s husband. Here’s why I say this: I believe the mat is the method. The mat existed way before Joe ever stepped foot on the boat to America.

Whatever we owe to Clara is insignificant compared to Joe’s creation of the mat. I’ve seen it throughout the years, people wanting to emasculate Joe and make out Clara to be the real deal. It’s Joe’s method, fact. Joe was a man, fact. It would be pretty tough not to call him a guru. You going to take away his method because he was a guy? You going to take away or undercut my view of Pilates because I’m a guy? You’d better think twice about where you’re coming from.”

Wow, gee, thanks for the warning.

"Wrong" is a word I use sparingly, however, we absolutely can disagree! And, in case you’ve been too busy defending yourself to notice, I’ll reiterate for you that I am not in disagreement with your view of progressing clients to the mat, Mr. Miller.

It is obvious that you are unaware of the history of Clara’s impact on the teaching of pilates. No one takes anything away from Joe and his contribution to mankind (in fact, you could not be more “off the mark” in your gender-related accusations) by saying that Clara was a wonderful teacher of the method. “Insignificant,” you say? I do not see this as a gender issue at all. You, in fact, are close to making it into one, by refusing to give credit where due. Joe and Clara worked side by side and she was a great support to him. Is that also true of the ridiculous examples you give to support your argument?

You profess that all the information needed for fluorescence is in Joe’s book; that it is unnecessary for readers to have ever heard accounts from those who knew him and how his studio operated. Fine.
Discounting those accounts just to prove your point, would seem, to me, to be choosing an isolationist viewpoint. That wouldn’t be my choice.

Call Joe whatever you like. Personally, I steer clear of the word “guru.” To me, the phrase, “JHPilates was an inspiration” suffices. Each and every day, I draw inspiration from and I am grateful to Joe and many others who have worked towards enhanced presence in the body.

Respectfully,
Carole

lee artur

Dear Michael, thank you for taking time to comment on those posts (mine included) and to refute with intelligence and humor( I did laugh, not at you, but in the fact that your answers made sense and reposited the discussion to the idea of Joe Pilates.) I also want to appologize to you, pubically for my snarky and uncharastically unkind remarks about you. You did not deserve those attacks,and I was very wrong and I must say hypocritical ( I actually DO BELIEVE what you are teaching)to put you down because I have always found your website enlightening and do hold your message in high regard. I do know what it is and actually do understand the idea of spirit, but won't go into it here, as I only wanted to let you know that I am embarrased for taking part in that dialogue and continuing the element of negitivity, that you were not responsible for and it was completely undeserved.

MM

Thank you, Lee. Apology accepted.

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